Are Hospitals Deadly For Your Health?

MEDICAL ERRORS

Going to the doctor may be deadly for your health!

Recently published findings show medical errors are the third leading cause of death in the USA.

Rising medical errors are symptomatic of our ageing community. A culture where health care providers are chronically overworked and understaffed. A culture where working while ill is a sign of strength, responsibility and dedication. A culture where most of the work done for patients is not reimbursable.

Such is the culture of health care that contributes to medical error despite advances in technology and knowledge.

In 2013 medical errors caused 440,000 deaths in the USA: [ http://www.hospitalsafetyscore.org/newsroom/display/hospitalerrors-thirdleading-causeofdeathinus-improvementstooslow ] Medical error, defined as [ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Medical_error ],  appears to be on the rise.

In 1999, the publication ‘First Do No Harm’ [ https://www.healthdesign.org/chd/research/first-do-no-harm ] did much shine a light on fundamental problems in medicine. Each year, medication errors alone harm 1.5 million American patients.

Tired, overworked health care providers often dismiss patient’s problems and  become magnets for medical errors. The problem of fatigue contributes to high burn out and suicide rates among doctors: [ http://www.thehappymd.com/blog/physician-burnout-rates-top-50-percent-in-usa / http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24448053 / http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/838437 ]

Also, with the billing for services rendered, health care providers perform many services that are not renumerated. Many of these services are essential to the patient and require much time. Services such as communication with other providers involved in that patient’s care.

Reviewing of old records, lab tests and X-rays are not billable. Even the refill of medications, or advocating for patients to insurance companies, are not reimbursing, despite their necessity and the fact that these are done daily. Often several times throughout the day.

Unlike lawyers, doctors do not bill on an hourly rate. They are compensated only for the time spent directly face-to-face in patient care. This underestimates the numbers of hours physicians and nurses spend caring for their patients.

Finding coverage for sick healthcare providers is difficult and often results in rescheduling of patients.  That means fitting patients in already booked and hectic physician schedules. Other contributors to medical errors  include lack of communication and access to information. Another is incompetence, plus poorly supervised residents and interns performing the work of senior doctors.

Many reprimanded physicians continue in practice. Eighty percent of malpractice, and adverse or sentinel events, are committed by 20% of physicians. 80/20. Yet only a fraction ever lose their license, and if they do, they simply go next door.

Medical personnel are treated as super humans, expected to go without sleep plus care for patients with complex medical problems. Medical errors are the end result of this. This finding is no surprise and nothing new since the publication of ‘First Do No Harm’.

A medical team is responsible for your care. An error by one person can cause catastrophic problems.

Lack of communication, and lack of access to information, are two. And lack of coordination makes three elements that contribute greatly to medical errors.

Errors will always occur, of course, but they will be much more likely when one is tired and there are no mechanisms in place to intercept errors.

Again unlike lawyers, doctors are not paid to call patients or to do research on patient problems. That needs to change.  We need to stop discounting the time doctors spend doing non-direct care.  Doctors should be compensated for all work done caring.

Just changes in the above will go a long way in reducing medical error.

To close, a very sad read of six physicians who felt so overwhelmed they took their own lives:

https://www.idealmedicalcare.org/blog/physician-suicide-letters-answered-a-sneak-peek-inside-my-new-book/

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Kansas Police Kill Suicidal Teen, Stopped Family From Helping (Video)

 

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Jennings ingested 60 pills in a suicide attempt, but was taken by police to a local hospital and survived. Only three hours after checking out of the hospital on Saturday, Jennings walked to the hardware store. [ where police shot at 16 bullets at him, shortly after, pronounced dead at the local hospital.]

 

They knew him,” Smith told the Kansas City Star. “They dealt with him the day before. He was suicidal. He had only been out of the [psychiatric] hospital for three hours when they shot him. I was screaming at the top by lungs, ‘That’s Joseph Jennings! You know him, don’t shoot him!'”

 

For Full Story:  Kansas Police Kill Suicidal Teen, Stopped Family From Helping (Video)

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This is in the midst of Mike Brown and daily occurrences  of police violence yet no justice. Where is justice? No arrests…what is going to happen to those residents once the press leaves #Ferguson?

 

Judgment is impaired…something is wrong!   This makes no sense.   I believe the victims!

There are too many to ignore… WE NEED INTERNATIONAL ASSISTANCE IMMEDIATELY. Sanctions against our government until they #HandsUp and surrender to the will of the  people.

 

 

Kansas Police Shoot, Kill Suicidal Teen

Suicide: A High School Student Takes Her Life

Maddie Yates took her life in last month April 2014. One of her best friends, Brianna Berrier, had taken her life one year earlier. Mattie and others planned a fundraising walk to increase awareness of suicide prevention. Below is a transcript of her final Youtube tape titled “Important.”

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A High School Student Committed Suicide After Posting A Message Of Her Intent On YouTube

 

I know it’s not OK for me to be doing this, but I just can’t do this anymore. It feels like I’m being swallowed whole into myself. It physically hurts. Sometimes it hurts so bad that I throw up, and sometimes I just get panic attacks. I know this is selfish. You know, the doctor prescribed Prozac for depression and anxiety, but those are just fancy words for “selfish.” I know that I’m going to hurt everyone who loves me, and I really do love them too. But I’ve been like this for so long, and there’s still a chance that the worst day might still be coming. And I just don’t see how this is a bad idea because it’s like someone’s on the 12th floor, and the room behind them is on fire. And they’re standing on the window ledge and they have a choice whether or not to jump and get away from the fire or just stay and die a slow, excruciating death. It feels like that.

But I don’t want anyone to feel like it was their fault. This was my decision, not yours. I’m the one who messed up, not you. There’s nothing, literally nothing that you could have done; you’ve all tried so hard to help me. And I tried too. I guess it’s like I don’t mean to be over dramatic, but it’s like there’s a demon inside of me [inaudible].

You can’t help me. You’ve tried. And I’m sorry. I really don’t mean to hurt anyone. Remember that I’m doing you a favor. Remember how bad of a person I really am. I say awful things. Even if I don’t mean them, I say them. You don’t even want to know the things that I think; I am not a good person. I’m doing literally the whole world a favor. But I love you, and I’m sorry. And I really, really love you.

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This video shows an intelligent, wise young lady with so much to offer. helping others as much as herself by sharing her wisdom on self-acceptance and acceptance of others.

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My condolences to her family. Being a survivor of two suicide losses I empathsize . My advice return to a routine as soon as possible and do not feel the need to hide emotions. Remember and talk about Maddie with others who loved her. It was the kindness and connection to others that really helped me.

Finally, depression is a lifelong struggle in a high-stressed society where personal achievement is the goal. Anyone who finds herself looking at the future as hopeless and filled with pain should seek help immediately. Talk with someone you trust and respect.

If someone confides feelings of hopelessness and pain, you should listen, stay with that friend and help convince the person to get help. Most people who commit suicide downplay their intentions.   When such a person comes to you it will be to talk about pain…listen, support and help the person get help by giving them positive alternatives called HOPE to reduce the pain.

If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please seek help. Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

Full Story:    A High School Student Committed Suicide After Posting A Message Of Her Intent On YouTube

http://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/a-high-school-student-committed-suicide-after-posting-a-mess

WTF: Suicide in the Name of Beyism (Beyonce Religion)

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Beyonce Worshipper Found Dead After Sacrificing Self To Singer

Taniya Hattersfield, 23, of College Park, GA was found dead Tuesday morning of self-inflicted stab wounds to the chest. Taniya Hattersfield was what appears to be a new member of the National Church of Bey, an organization based on the religion called Beyism. The religion was founded to worship the R&B superstar Beyoncé Knowles and boasts hundreds of members that call themselves Divine Divas and even view Beyoncé’s music as sacred text.

The exact details of the suicide note were not revealed, but police did indicate that Hattersfield took her own life as a sacrifice to Beyoncé at the request of the National Church of Bey. We were able to speak with the family of Hattersfield. Her mother had this shocking response: “She was crazy,” her mother said, “Plum f-ckin’ crazy! You can’t be nothin’ but crazy to take your life over some lightskin b***h that sings. I mean, I know that’s my daughter, but I’m just keepin’ it real.”

Hattersfield’s father was less vulgar, but equally shocking. “I don’t even consider that my daughter. My sperm don’t make crazy b****s that worships singers,” the father said, “just because her mama and I had a good time one Friday night don’t make her my daughter.”

Meanwhile, Taniya Hattersfield’s body has yet to be claimed by any family members. It currently sits in the hospital morgue waiting for a proper burial. If her body is not claimed, Taniya may eventually be laid to rest in a Potter’s Field, a cemetery typical for homeless people that have no known families to claim them.

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The last sentence is the saddest part of this story. Taniya killed herself and no one cared. Her family is correct she took her life for a crazy reason, as far as we know; their disappointment and pain understandable with each memory a stab wound to the soul.

The need to belong and connect trap teenagers and young adults, blind and render them incapable of knowing when to ask for help.

WTF is Beyism? A religion to worship the R&B superstar Beyoncé Knowles, HUH! Beyonce do the responsible thing: Denounce this lunatic religion or replace it with a dream that is positive, attainable and keep young People of Color on paths of growth and self-efficacy.

Read Full Story:   Beyonce Worshipper Found Dead After Sacrificing Self To Singer

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Surprising interests in this story roused curiosity around comments that would follow. Here are two: But first two remarks and an update.

  1. The first  comment surprised  only that someone would defend the insanity.

  2. The second comment inspired hope.

  • There are people with sensible values.  Right?

Update:

Beyism is the brainchild of 12 friends high on pot in Atlanta. (4)   Apparently, they are still high on pot because they plan to publish a Bible called Beyble.  This would be amusing and full of laughter had Taniya Hattersfield not killed herself in the name of  Beyism.

Was Taniya among the 12 high founders?  Probably not, founders  don’t sacrifice themselves they find  followers for that role.

Future plans for Beyism include expansion in numbers outside the Atlanta area.   My suggestion, keep the number of followers  at 12 or less and take away their pot.

Comments:

April 26, 2014 at 11:42 am

Don’t speak about things you don’t understand. If you simple minded creatures would take the time the listen and comprehend Beyonce’s gospel you would know that this sacrifice was necessary. Her parents seemed to have let her down but thanks to Beyoncé she’s in a better place now.

April 26, 2014 at 3:29 pm

“Don’t speak about things you don’t understand. If you simple minded creatures would take the time the listen and comprehend Beyonce’s gospel you would know that this sacrifice was necessary. Her parents seemed to have let her down but thanks to Beyoncé she’s in a better place now.”

B, with all do respect you sound foolish just like this woman and the rest of her followers. Have you ever read the bible? There is no true gospel, but the One God made! It is up to you to believe a lie, but that is the work of the devil! Heaven and hell are real-we chose that path. How dare her place herself as a god. And yes she is a :god,” but with a LITTLE g! There is only one true God above all and one day she too will bow down before Him. Have mercy on all of you. May the truth of God be revealed to you and all who are blinded! God have mercy!

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  4. Drunk In Madness: Beyonce Worshippers Open Church In US, Call Beyonce A “Divine Deity”
  5. Beyonce Church Of Beyism

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No Child Abuse Yet Massachusetts Keeps Child

#FreeJustinaNow

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Two out of every 100,000 patients suffer medical child abuse (3). The treatment of medical child abuse is complex but does not require involuntarily hospitalization. Involuntary hospitalization, particularly of a child, in psychiatric hospitals, increases the risk of #suicide and other high-risk behaviors.

Medical child abuse is a form of child abuse that leaves the physical and emotional stigmata of abuse. Over 82% of child abuse cases occur in children under four years old. Justina Pelletier is 15 years old, and she had no signs of physical abuse or neglect. Medical child abuse implies Munchausen by proxy and the two are used interchangeably. As there are no tests to make a diagnosis, Munchausen by proxy can only be proven when(as is the case with most psychiatric diagnoses) an improvement of the child’s condition follows transient separation from an abusive parent.. This did not occur with Justina; she got worse and now cannot walk while she skated a week earlier.

In the case of Justina Pelletier, treatment plans based on the diagnoses of medical child abuse and somatic symptom Disorder (SSD) were inappropriate and deviated from standard care. Traditional paternalistic medical approaches are outdated and not in keeping with current times. At one time, most female problems were due to hysteria. It looks like we have slipped back to overusing psychiatry in order to dismiss medical problems, and more importantly, in order to label and defame and patients.

The ACA was supposed to change the culture of medicine, value the patients through patient engagement, and participate in their care. Boston Children’s Hospital, the nation’s preeminent provider of medical care to children, practices cruelty rather than healing, exposing youngsters to greater abuse and risks to ensure indelible nightmares.

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At any other hospital, Justina Pelletier would be free by now; unfortunately, the laws on forced seizure of children and parentectomy were made in Massachusetts and at Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital. The power structure is on full display as Harvard Boston Children’s Hospital ignores Justina, her family, her community, and we the people. A power structure that defies the integrity, quality, and science of medicine. It is a power structure where illegal activities are enforced by systems meant to protect the people. Furthermore, we pay for these systems with our tax dollars. Now we the people see where those dollars eventually end up: not with the poor as victimized and as previously imagined.

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Boston Children’s Hospital, a child abuser

Much of the literature on medical child abuse centers around child abuse. For Boston Children’s Hospital to take such drastic measures without signs of physical abuse or neglect (traditional meaning) and without reviewing patient records or even consulting Dr. Korson beforehand, is not only cavalier and arrogant but unusual that such a preeminent institution would deviate from the standard of care and continue to do so. Surely, there is big monetary gain and an upward rank in the near future for participants. As the result of a hasty call by Boston Children’s Hospital’s doctors, without appropriate or standard evaluation, 14 months have passed and Justina Pelletier remains a ward of the state of Massachusetts.

Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital carries much weight and influence in Massachusetts as well as the world. A new and ill-defined psychiatric diagnosis, Somatoform Disorder, was made by a new team of doctors unfamiliar with the patient who made no attempt to be thorough or understand her as a patient. This team summarily dismissed mitochondrial disease, which is rare and genetic. ( Justina’s sister had mitochondrial disease. She was treated by Dr Korson and appear tedo be doing well except for the fact that her little sister was snatched away.) and is associated with findings on physical exams and muscle biopsy diagnostics. Mitochondrial disease has more hard findings, yet it was targeted by the team of doctors at Boston Children’s Hospital.

How to proceed when the child’s diagnosis is in dispute? Communicate and coordinate care always, with the intent of doing no harm and healing. Boston Children’s Hospital’s actions were not in keeping with ethical health care. The doctors violated patients’ trust without much evidence to back up their arrogance.

Are victims of child abuse who are evaluated at Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital Emergency Department routinely admitted to a locked unit , Badr 5, for ten months? Is this a new approach to medical child abuse? Or is this a new approach to the treatment of severe somatic symptom disorder? How do you select patients for this treatment plan?

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medical-child-abuse-beyond-munchausen-syndrome-by-proxy-carole-jenny-hardcover-cover-artUnbelievably, many people, including the medical community, still want to believe the worst of the Pelletiers, despite glaring evidence and common sense. Some are conditioned to believe in power and authority. Most prefer denial, shouting down all evidence or what time has revealed, believing such atrocities could only be deserved. Consider how often Justina’s advocate has come forth to offer support services and discuss ways to get Justina home. Does Justina have an #advocate? Who is observing the state of Massachusetts’s role as Justina’s legal guardian?

Justina is of the age where, in family court, she can choose which parent she wants to live with. Does Justina not have that right? Why and how was that right stripped? Justina should not have to fear revealing her feelings of violation and abuse. What kind of psychiatry is practiced at Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital? As parents, we warn our children not to keep secrets, but Justina is being punitively conditioned to keep secrets and deceive. What kind of parent is the State of Massachusetts? I say it is a very abusive parent. Moreover, signs, symptoms and physical evidence confirm my belief.

Child neglect and physical abuse represent over 80% of fatalities. Victims of medical child abuse, or rather Munchausen by proxy, often show signs of physical abuse or neglect. Unneccessary surgery does not yield large bands requiring removal. Justina was referred by Dr Korson—a Munchausen by proxy parent deceptively seeks care secretively from multiple providers. These parents have a profile that plays out over time, and this has not occurred with the Pelletiers. In addition, Justina did not improve, and is now worse, essentially eliminating the claim of medical child abuse as well as the threat to Justina’s health and life.

Why is she still a ward of the state? Why isn’t she at home with her family as she desires to be? Why is she not allowed to speak?
Involuntary inpatient hospitalization (incarceration) for either medical child abuse or SSD is not medicine, it is not standard treatment and it is a dangerous deviation from appropriate care. Within the literature on child abuse and psychiatric conditions, particularly SSD, adverserial relationships with parents are to be avoided and involvement of a trusted physician could have averted this nightmare, if that had been the intent.

Boston Children’s Hospital’s pre-eminent staff chose to ignore their own literature, choosing the most dangerous, ill-advised and most expensive path of treatment. Justina occupied a bed that could have been used by patients with severe mental illnesses, who had an acute risk for self-harm or whose judgment was impaired making them unable to provide for self.

Criteria for 51 A and involuntary admission:

1. At risk to herself

2. At risk of harming others

3. Unable to care for self

Many deserving patients were turned away because of Justina’s inappropriate admission to Bader for five to ten months. Patients in need of inpatient psychiatric care wait in emergency departments all over this country for psychiatric beds. They are routinely kept in the ED for 72 hours and sometimes up to 7 days before a bed is available, or those patients are discharged directly from the ED. And here we have Justina, inappropriately placed without thoughtful planning, inadvertently using services that could be better used for those who truly need this kind of placement. These patients meet the criteria and have nowhere else to go. Justina has a family who wants her and are fighting for her to come home. How does the state of MA justify this wasteful use of resources?

Part 4 of 4

Psychiatric hospitalization dramatically increases the risks of suicide, with studies stating that the risk of suicide to mentally ill patients post-discharge after inpatient psychiatric care is up to 100 times greater. The risk of suicide attempt is even more disturbing, with three in four patients attempting suicide within 1 month post-discharge. (This increase risk was independent of pre-existing suicide risks). Suicide attempts cause severe morbidity associated with severe disabilities.

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Road to Wayside Youth and Family blocked and barricaded. Justina imprisoned under 24/7 armed officers

Research in this area is scant. Most studies focus on the first 72 hours to one week post-discharge after inpatient psychiatric hospitalization. Long-term risks are not well-documented, but the risk of suicide never disappears.
Child abuse is complex making treatment an art. However, treatment plans recognize that child abuse often stems from stress, culture and history of abuse. Child abuse often stems from stress associated with an acute event, such as the loss of a job, especially among single parents.

Supportive services that help identify underlying reasons for the abuse also help families find alternative methods to cope with stress and improve parental skills. The safety of the victims is the primary goal, along with the preservation of the family through reunification with counseling, etc. Massachusetts receives many grants and allegedly has these services. Are they (MA) providing this support to the Pelletiers?

Why did Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital choose to follow a path that clearly jeopardized Justina’s health? If #JustinaPelletier was abused by her parents, BCH’s treatment exploited and victimized her further.

In medicine, classic cases are easy. The art of medicine is diagnosing atypical presentations. With Justina, this is made simple because she has a sibling with a similar diagnosis. Why is that point lost in the shuffle?

Dr. Korson should have performed a muscle biopsy, but did not. Did Boston Children’s Hospital perform a muscle biopsy? Were the results negative? An initial assessment should be done on all patients before making premature, unsubstantiated allegations and accusations of child abuse, or reporting the family to the Department of Children and Families (DCF).

What were Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital’s reasons (motives) for hastily invoking these diagnoses (Somatoform disorder and Medical Child Abuse) that resulted in the infamous parent-ectomy?

Fourteen months is a very long time for a teenager to be forcibly separated from the family and friends she loves, as is evident from pictures and notes she secretly wrote asking her family to take her home.

What is the next step? Judge Joseph Johnston has granted permanent custody of Justina Pelletier to the state of Massachusetts. Will Justina remain a prisoner at Wayside Youth & Family until age 18? No other facility will accept Justina in transfer from Wayside, and if one does, beware.

In addition, will her providers at Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital continue providing medical care to other children? Our medical delivery system should heal and not do harm. These providers should not be allowed to continue to do harm.

Will their research be published? Will the NIH continue to give Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital grant money to imprison, molest and conduct medical experiments on children? Will sponsors continue their support of Boston Children’s Hospital?

Finally, who is calling the shots? Will that person step forth, be a leader, and communicate their intent?

This case shows that the state of Massachusetts is blatantly violating human rights, parental rights and patient rights with impunity. The will and voice of the people were ignored and gagged. The people are powerless in Massachussetts, a state known from its preeminent institutions, hospitals and leaders. The people of Massachussetts are powerless to free Justina. Petitions and phone calls fall on deaf ears or no ears at all. Evidence of wrongdoing, harm and criminal activities are obvious. This impotent response does not get the job done.

Equally apparent and shocking is the lack of accountability of those who provide medical care and services. A problem we, the people cannot ignore if we value our health. The lack of accountability of hospitals, and Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital in particular, (and in my case Tufts Medical Center) compromises the public’s health. Many parents fear the same could happen to them. The worst is knowing there are no laws to protect against such forced seizures. These seizures are unethical and are not healing, and they cause enormous harm. Rights are trampled under the guise of so-called medicine. This occurs at moments when people are most vulnerable and in need of the healing powers of doctors and other medical providers. These medical providers are like priests who exploited their powers and hid behind the Church; these providers still practice and care for children.

Harvard’s Boston Children’s Hospital has demonstrated that healing is not a priority for them; neither is doing no harm. The acquisition of knowledge to maintain power and financial gain entices many who rise to senior leadership positions. The bottom line is that Boston Children’s Hospital did not need to place Justina in a locked unit (Bader 5). The average length of stay for psychiatric admission is 10 days, with the longest being about 300 days, making Justina Pelletier’s stay the longest in modern times. Justina Pelletier was forcibly seized from her parents, her friends and her community—everything she knew and loved—and forced to live in another state, surrounded by strangers who deny her basic rights to practice her religion. There is no reason for her to be in such a setting; furthermore, it is medically not recommended to cavalierly place patients, particularly victims of medical child abuse.
We need studies to determine the impact of a lack of accountability on corruption and cruelty to patients, as well as rising health care costs, poor health outcomes and mounting, unprecedented dissatisfaction of patients.

No child abuse means that Justina Pelletier should be free! When will Massachusetts #FreeJustina?

Failure to Listen to the will of the people will cost the election….don’t you think?

References:

1.    Child Abuse and Neglect Fatalities 2011: Statistics and Interventions

2.   Justina Pelletier: The Debate Continues

3.   Medical Child Abuse A New Perspective on Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy

4.   National Statistics on Child Abuse

Of the children who experienced maltreatment or abuse, over 75% suffered neglect; more than 15% suffered physical abuse, and just under 10% suffered sexual abuse.

5.   YOUR RIGHTS REGARDING ADMISSION TO AND DISCHARGE FROM A HOSPITAL UNDER MASSACHUSETTS MENTAL HEALTH LAW

6.   Why Justina Pelletier Still Ward Of MA?

7.  Justina Pelletier – Important Questions To Ask Boston Children’s Hospital

8.  Justina Pelletier – Resource of Online Information | updated 4/24/2014

 

 

What to Do When Someone Is Suicidal

What to Do When Someone Is SuicidalOne family’s loss is a lesson for us all. Published on January…

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What to Do When Someone Is Suicidal | Psychology Today

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What to Do When Someone Is Suicidal

One family’s loss is a lesson for us all.

Published on January 29, 2014 by Rachel Pruchno, Ph.D. in All in the Family

What do you do if your young adult daughter tells you she’s thinking about killing herself?
This was the issue facing 19-year-old Madison Holleran’s parents James and Stacy in December. “We knew she needed help. She knew she needed help,” her father told the New York Post.

The University of Pennsylvania freshman’s parents did what they thought was right. They talked with Madison. They encouraged Madison to make an appointment with a therapist who could prescribe anti-depressant medication. They suggested she take time off from school. Even as her father was driving Madison back to Penn on January 11, he told her he’d support her decision to transfer schools if she wanted. He offered to drive her to Chapel Hill so she could look at the University of North Carolina.

I probably would have done the same thing.

But Madison said she’d made plans with a friend in Philadelphia that she needed to keep. Even once Madison was back at school, her father stayed in contact with her, texting often.

On January 17, the beautiful track star from New Jersey plunged from the roof of a parking garage, killing herself.

Suicide has no demographic boundaries, affecting people regardless of their gender, race, socioeconomic status, culture, or religion. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention1, approximately one million people attempt suicide each year. In 2010, the most recent year for which data exist, 38,364 Americans took their own lives; that’s one suicide every 13.7 minutes. Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death among all Americans and the third leading cause of death among people Madison’s age (15-24 years)2. Unlike many other leading causes of death, the number of people who commit suicide grows each year.

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